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Kathy Ann-Dead Girl Talking
How Your Sense of Worth, Quietly Shapes Your Life
Today’s words coming through are about worth, self-worth. It is so important to love yourself as you, are because you set the standard, if you would call it that, upon yourself. You set your value when you set your worth. What do you think you are worth? Do you think you are worth love? Do you think you are worth happiness and joy? Do you think that your body is worthy of a compliment? Do you think that your body is beautiful as it is? Or do you look in the mirror and pick at yourself? Do you look in the mirror and instead of seeing what is good, pick at things you feel are not.
Self-worth is the foundation to your life. When you feel worth whatever it is you are wanting, when you are loving yourself for who you are as you are, you are setting the standard for the words you accept in your mind. You will begin to hear the words of love more and more as you look in the mirror and offer yourself words of love. When you look in the mirror and you see flaws as you perceive them to be, you allow the thoughts to come to you from others about these flaws.
And here’s the thing. The others may not even be thinking about them. They may not know about them nor care about them. They love you more than they care about the flaws, and they see perfection in you. Yet, when you don’t see perfection in yourself, and maybe perfection is a strong word. But when you don’t see your own value, through the things your body has lived through. Through the events that have caused your body to look and feel the way it does.
The perception can be that others see these same things and your mind, you, make up in your mind what you think they’re thinking of you. And if you would talk to them, many times you will find they don’t think that. They don’t judge you like you think. You are the judge of your own self. Self-worth is the foundation of who you are. It is so important to love yourself, But you are in a human body and it has its scars, it has its weight, it has its weaknesses, should we call them.
But you can take these things that you think are flaws, and turn them into beauty on your own. The beauty of the journey you have been through, that has brought you what you consider flaws, is the beauty of you. You have learned many things and these perceived flaws that you look at are learning lessons. Learning tools for you to share with others. When you can look at yourself and say, I love me for who I am, or even just to start and say, I really like who I am, and I’m good with where I’m at. And I can look in the mirror, and I can be happy knowing that everything I am looking at has been part of my journey.
And my journey is the journey of love and hope. And I can take what I have learned through this body, through my mind, and I can help others on their journey. I can become an inspiration for others, for I have lived what they are living through now. And I can tell them that they are loved no matter what they are living through. And I can offer the love and the support through my experiences. No one can offer the same love you can offer another, for no one has journeyed your journey. You are the only one with your point of view. You are the only one with your perceptions of life. And you are here to offer encouragement, love, support to those who are going through what you might have gone through. Your body has been your journey and it still is your journey. Will always be your journey. And to begin to love your journey more, love your body more.Love yourself more.
When you are loving yourself within, you are loving God who lives in you, who loves you, and who is on this journey with you. Waiting for you to come to the realization that you are perfect as you are. You are loved as you are. You are as you are, that you may help another. Looking in the mirror and looking into your eyes and seeing the love that lives deep within you, will help you to come to this realization. But first you must take that step of self-acceptance, of self-love. And it is by looking in the mirror and starting small. If you are having a difficult time looking at your entire body, maybe it has more weight than you want. Maybe it has less weight than you want. Maybe it has scars. Maybe it has the imperfections that you perceive them to be. To look in the mirror and to accept yourself is a miraculous thing.
We all want miracles in our life. We all want that one thing that lifts us. To understand that, that one thing that lifts us beyond anything lives in us and is an intricate part of us. Always, always there. Always, always loving. And always waiting for you to light your eyes with the love living within. To light your mind with the love living within. To understand that the way you are is a blessing in itself. And you may not feel this or see this if you have the illnesses and things that bring you down. We are saying the way to lift yourself past all of this is to look into your eyes. And if you cannot say you love yourself quite yet, look into your eyes and tell your loving creator how much you love Him. How much you appreciate that he lives in you, and he will help you to lift yourself past these judgments that you have set upon yourself. That you can move forward in your mind with love. That you will every day look at yourself and take small baby steps towards loving who you, are by saying kind things to yourself.
You must say the kind things to yourself to be able to accept the kind things that others are already saying to you that you maybe are not hearing, because you do not think yourself worthy of them. You are worth everything that you want in this life, including love, health, abundance. You are worth everything. What lives in you can offer you everything, but you must begin to look at yourself with the words, the kindness of love. Loving yourself is loving another. Loving yourself is loving God. Loving yourself is offering the vibration of love all about you, all through your atmosphere. And this vibration will be felt by many. And this is how things begin. This is how love and peace begin. Through self-love, through self-worth.
Take a few minutes in the morning and close your eyes and just feel the love that lives within you. See at the core of your being the light within you. It may be a flicker. but you can allow it to grow. You can allow it to become through you, and you can love yourself as you are. For who you are. For what you are, and for where you are at in your life.
You are the change you have been waiting for. It is all up to you. You are worth everything. And you are loved unconditionally at every moment in your life. Even when you are pushing it away through thoughts and words that are not kind to yourself. Loving yourself is the greatest gift you can give to everyone, including yourself. Start with kind words. Start with affirmations that make you feel good. Affirmations that feel within your entire being. When you find an affirmation, it will turn and change with you if you allow it. One day you may say some words, I love myself deeply. And the next day you may say, I love myself deeply and entirely, and I accept who I am. And the next day you may say, I love myself deeply and entirely. I accept who I am and I accept what lives within me coming to life as I love myself.
Affirmations are meant to change with you. As you grow they grow. As you begin to accept the words that they have to offer the words will change to more and more and more. And your affirmations, which come from the core of who you are, come from the love living in you will grow and change and help you to understand yourself. To accept yourself, and to love yourself fully, as we love you as you are. For who you are. What you are. Where you are. The physical appearance means nothing compared to the love living within. And this is the goal. To understand and to allow the love from within to glow, to grow. For you will be able to offer to others who feel the same as you are right now. You will be able to offer them the words of growth and love as you grow and love yourself.
You are loved unconditionally and this is so important to know. This is so important to understand and to accept. So begin to allow the words, the kindness from your own mind to come to life and grow, as you accept your worth. As you accept self-love.